Hi Kylee! Thanks for your comments on the site, thanks for checking on Michael!
I don’t think you’ve ever told me about your accident. What happened?
I can only imagine how you feel, how much you’re missing, how difficult it all is. I’m sure you that a lot though. I’ve seen enough to know that you are an inspiration to people and you have an opportunity to effect people that many of us don’t. You are a unique person! You should be proud of how hard you’ve worked and how far you’ve come. – Just don’t let wishing life were different keep you from making the most of the life you have.
There is someone who does understand and will always be there to help, one who sticks closer than a brother. I realize all the God stuff can sound too simple or un-real but it’s not. He is someone we can count on!
I really like reading your comments and thanks for checking on Michael!
I think Skynard said it best - and if you can't say it better, steal it from someone who already did:
Mama told me when I was young Come sit beside me, my only son And listen closely to what I say. And if you do this It will help you some sunny day. Take your time... dont live too fast, Troubles will come and they will pass. Go find a woman and youll find love, And dont forget son, There is someone up above.
And be a simple kind of man. Be something you love and understand. Be a simple kind of man. Wont you do this for me son, If you can?
Forget your lust for the rich mans gold All that you need is in your soul, And you can do this if you try. All that I want for you my son, Is to be satisfied.
(chorus)
Boy, dont you worry... youll find yourself. Follow you heart and nothing else. And you can do this if you try. All I want for you my son, Is to be satisfied.
Ah, the wisdom of Skynard. [:-)] Thanks Laura! I've heard that song many times - but I haven't really listened to anything but the chorus. Good words! - Thanks!
Kirk - you're funny.... I was remembering today yesterday, because the 24th of August LAST year was a Wednesday; 3:15 pm.... 4:30 pm when I got the call... anyway, I spent a few moments reading the first few entries... way back to when Michael started this... it was his site, originally set up as a place the kids at his "other" church (the one he attends with his Dad, Connie and Addison) could anonymously put prayer requests and chat. That's My Michael - concerned about others.
Even though the smiles Kirk talked about are a gift from God and I appreciate them - they truly let us know he is still "there"... I want words.
Kylee,
I’m working on a page that will tell Michael’s story there will be a link at the top of the web page here labeled “Michael’s Story”. To answer your question in many less words: Michael attempted to take his own life – or at least that seems very apparent. He feel from an overpass bridge about 25 feet to the traffic lane below during heavy traffic (rush hour) time. He was not struck by a car, there were no accidents. Michael had no other significant injuries from the fall, in many ways he was very lucky, it’s been said repeatedly “he should not be alive”. It seems as though he thought he was taking control for once but God had other plans for him.
I’ll try to put some answers to all the questions in his story. Thanks for asking, sorry I took so long saying anything.
Thanks Kylee, thanks for keeping up on him!!
Hi Kylee, He's doing good. Thanks for keeping up on him. How are you doing?
Hi Jill, I'll keep Emory in mind. :) I'll ask Michael what he thinks, I've thought of giving him options next time.
Congratulations Kylee!!! That's quite an accomplishment! Watch out for the crazy people.
Thanks Kylee, I'll read what you've said to him!
Hi Sarah, nice to hear from you, I'll read your comment to Michael. Feel free to leave him one anytime.
I didn't mean to cause any confusion with my - I hesitate statement. I could have said it better by saying there are just too many thoughts and feelings to say anything else. I thank God for his mercy and grace that we are all working together for Michael and to support each other. I'm also thankful to Connie and Christine for working together so well!
im glad michael is doing well. just hang in there.
Hi Michael I am so excited We get to come to your house for Thanksgiving, I can hardly wait, I got to see you for a little while on Saturda. Your Dad showing me some of the things I will need to know when your grnadpa & i stay with you while your Dad & cinnie go to see the Plaza lights, this is really a joy for me, I want to learn everything that is possible so maybe if the opportunity arrives again, then Your Dad & Connie will be secure in letting us stay with you. The nurse showed me some things also. Then being there on Thursday, I will learn even more, You looked so good, watching that movie Fang, I even enjoyed that, but whatever you want to do in the evening will be fine with me, and your grandpa is always saying things that make you smile, when Addison brought the buttons in and had you play them, that made you smile also. So it was really a great day and then being with you on Thanksgiving will be even better, so have a great week. The Lord is watching and taking care of you plus the rest of your family there. just know your loved and missed very much. I thank the Lord for you and it is so comforting know He is there with you every second of the day. Ps 27:1 The Lord is my and my salvation: whom shall I fear the Lord is the strength of my life: of whom shall I be afraid. Love you lots Grandma Foutts
Just checking in. Glad to hear your news.
Love,
Jill
i miss columbia and all those nice people there :). hope michael is doing well.. i back into my garage door with the door down :S yes i know.. stupid haha
Poor kid, how frustrating! I'll definitely keep him in prayers. Good to hear that a "groove" has occurred. There is some comfort in being in a "normal" routine (whatever normal is....).
Much joy to all of you for Christmas. Send hugs around for me...
I have been checking the site regularly and praying constantly. I have not been to see Michael, and since so much time went by, it makes it harder to face him. I feel like I really let him down. Is there a time over the holiday that I could come to see him? Tell him I wrote and I am still here. Michelle Ridnour
HI Michael it is me again grandma Foutts, it has been awhile since I have written anything and this is behaind the time that is dated. It is so good to hear your doing neat things like playing checkers, blowing through your lips like your dad said, it is easy for us we do not know how hard it is for you to do these things but I know the Lord is with you everyday and He is keeping a watch out for you besides the nurses that are with you, I know there is just one nurse each day, but the one might not be there every day although she could be I do not know. I am looking so much for Christmas, then I can be with you and talk with you and have you squeezed my hand that you do so very well. I read this book Michael and the young man in it had a brain injury also, but the things he learn to do was fantastic, but we also must do our part. I know the nurse, your dad, Connie and Addison are working with you and you are doing things that you were not doing a month or so ago, so I know you can do them, you understand it just takes you a little longer to do them, but if we are consistent, then you learn to do them also. Just know you are loved, appreciated and needed so much, through you we learn all that the Lord is teaching you to do. He loves you so much Michael. He wants only the best for you also. Well I just wanted you to know I pray for you daily and your in my thoughts each and everyday. Keep up the good work and bless you for all the effort it takes you to do anything especially when it is new. I know your Aunt Sally is teaching you so much also and the love she has for you is wonderful. so just know you are loved very much. have a great week and I will see you Christmas Day. Stay warm and have your dad, Connie or Addison or even Aunt Sally give you a big hug and kiss for me. May our Lord continue to strengthen,love you lots. Grandma Foutts
I'm so glad for the hug I got on Christmas! I think the next time I'm in KC, it probably won't be around any major holidays - I'd like to come visit with Mike and just be able to sit, relax and hang out.
It was so good to see all of you. You're all still in my prayers and my thoughts. Much love, Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!
~Laura
Any time would great. I know Michael would like that! Happy New Year to you too.
Hey!!!!!!!
How is Michael doing THIS week? Please tell him I miss him... and am planning on being there this Sunday, PLEASE give him a big hug from me....
Sally
It is indeed hard to believe...18. This morning I called to talk to Michael... Deborarh "nurse extraordinaire" handed him the phone... I wished him a Happy Birthday... he moaned at me.... I asked him to say "Mom" (I always do)... he moaned some more.... after a while I told him to give the phone back to Deborah and Bye... he handed the phone back and waved... Deborah laughed... I smiled.
small correction... The expected date of surgery is 2/16, with pre-op appointments on 2/15... if Blue Cross ok's.
Second, the expected admission date to Rusk is the 19th, not the 26th. Hopefully, one can roll into the other - being released from outpatient surgery right to Rusk.
Yes, I told Dr. Farid I had "a zillion" questions... he didn't believe me... but those that know me can attest --- one small statement mushrooms (like a nuclear cloud) into a zillion... he believes me now :)
Thank you for your prayers.
WOW !!!!! I was prepared to come to this site and give you a hard time for not updating...this is all great news...I will continue to "pray without ceasing"
My post sounds like I'm saying good-bye to everyone. That's not it, I just felt very thankful, it is humbling to realize how many people support my son and our family. I'll miss everyone, but it's just for a little bit.
glad to see if michael is doing well. ive been thinking about him lately but ive kept forgetting to check your site!
Hi Kylee;., Well I thought he would be there at Rusk this week but, at least for now, that isn't the case. He's trying hard but he is really fighting the tenseness now, it's bad. We're going to keep trying for Rusk and I'm going to get him to a dr. here is the KC area to adjust his pump.
Nice to hear from you.
Hello Michael,
I was hoping so much that the Baclofen pump would work for you this time. Its wonderful if it works right results are really amazing. I know that you are a very strong young man. Keep up the awesome work that you have done.
Michael you are truly a fighter. We are all so proud of you. We miss you a lot.
Sandy and Suzane
Michael made it to Rusk this morning, he’s getting settled in right now. He is sharing a room with another young man who is also there for the 2nd time. Everything is going great.
Great!!!!!!
Great news! I wish Michael the best at Rusk. We'll keep things ready for him when he returns. Leasa Coulter
Glad to hear things are going well, When will he be coming home? When you talk to him, be VERY SURE and tell him we miss him and are thinking about him all the time.
I believe Michael's time is coming as soon he is ready the Lord will provide, He has already done some wonderful things for Michael Your the greatest Michael love you and miss you very much. Love Grandma F.Prov. 3_5-6
Michael,
I have been keeping up on your Spring Break activities in Columbia! You have had quite an adventure. I know you have been working hard. I am ready to get back to school on Monday, and I am sure you are too. Leasa
I read Michael your comment and asked him if he wanted to do this next year for Spring Break - he as kind of mixed on his answer. :) I think you're going to see Michael do some surprising things when he's back the swing of everything.
I'm so excited to hear about Michael's communication device. When he used to come to my room during his lab, the thing he was most excited about was working on the computer and his website. I'm glad to hear he will be computing again! Please tell him hello--and I look forward to the day he will be able to share his website with me again!
Thanks for the comment Dana! It's nice to hear from you and I really like reading these to him. I will give him your message.
I hope you'll come out and walk with us, it's a lot of fun. Michael really enjoys seeing everyone and we are supporting a great organization. If you're a runner, this is a pretty good run.
Michael so glad to hear you have your commuicator/computer, another big step in your life you will be doing all kind of things before you know it, the Lord will give you the wisdom and knowledge as you learn about it all, sure do miss you and love you Love Grandma F
:)
Thought I would share this...hope its ok to share: I like you always weigh the pro's and con always worried about "what is the right thing" (maybe it's not "thinking too much" but "constant debate" I wonder if this may be genetic because I remeber Michael doing the same thing :o)} ANYWAY this song has come from nowhere and stuck in my head and or heart so I am hoping it is appropriate to share:
When peace like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.
Thanks. Very Much, those are some great words, an awesome song. Do you know the history of that song? Thanks Sally!
This isn’t the “everything is positive” crap you get from culture today. The circumstances of life are not always positive and although some despicable, greedy people might preach it to you or try to sell you a book that says this, the Bible does not in any way guarantee a life without problems, pain or sadness. In fact it is just the opposite! See the whole book of Psalms just to start. In Phil 4 we are given a list of things that can not separate us from the love of God, if sorrow and pain and circumstances were not real then there would be no need to give us instruction that they won’t separate us from him. That is the key, the final word – just as this song says. God doesn’t want pain sorrow and suffering but he doesn’t make our decisions for us or for others – it is the separation from God that has brought these things. This world has been set against him since time began and until that separation no longer exists, until he personally comes to change it, there will be pain, sorrow, problems and suffering but in it all we are offered peace, the real 'wellness' in our soul through Jesus Christ.
thats great to hear. i havent been on this site in forever. i love to swim too. i just got in the pool last summer.
Nice to hear from you Kylee. How is the pool for you?
i havent been in the pool for a while. so can michael walk now? or just in water
I love that song, it says so much and also that we must completely and totally depend on the Lord Jesus christ without Him I am nothing and without Him I can do nothing but with Jesus Christ I can do all things, Praise His Holy Name
I am trusting the Lord with Michael, He knows Michael better than any of us. The Lord is teach each and everyone of us we just must be ready, alert and sensitive to His calling. And when we can say It is well with my soul, then we can know that the Lord knows our hearts and how much we love and trust Him, and it just gives you a peace when you sing the song, especially when it tells you no matter what the circumstance, with the Lord all is well and no one else can give you that peace of mind and the yearning we have for Him waiting and trusting, and loving Him with our all, I know two people personally one has Lukemia and the other has cancer in her lympnodes, their future is not long for this world yet their testimony is so sweet, they are always smiling never complaining just accepting because they know they are in the Lord's Hands and they are ready for whatever He desires. and since I know Michael is in the Lord,s Hands we do not know how the Lord will use Michael, but I know He has already. Bless the Lord O my soul, Bless His Holy Name, it is well, it is well with my soul. Love you Michael very much Grandma Foutts
Well, maybe not :) Now it appears that Jesse will be around. Jesse was able to be with Michael today and he is obviously happy with this. Big Smile!
This is good on multiple levels. It's good that he's happy.
good to hear michael is doing well
Hi Michael I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you, but I do that a lot. I surre do miss you I love being with you, sometimes it seems like it has been forever, but I guess the last time was just before father's day, you were smiling a lot that day and that always makes my day. Not sure when we will see you again, I hope you will be at Addison's birthday party but I am not sure tho, cause I know it is a lot for you to have so much done for you to be there. But I can always hope. This Sat. we don't go over to Grace's since her son will be there and since we have had so much rain, your grandpa will probably be cutting the grass. So maybe the next week, time will tell. If you are at your dad's or if we go to Grace's or not all depends on how long James (her son) will be here, But just know you are loved so much and missed always. I know this is suppose to be a prayer request but I just wanted you to know how wonderful you are and how hard you work on doing all that you do. I love to have you squeezed my hand it is so neat, because I know you understand what I am saying and do it, the Lord is so good. I know He has plans for you and I also know how much He loves you and He is watching over you every second of the day and that gives me so much confidence because I know He can take care of you and love you better than us all. So my love one, keep up the good work and keep on smiling and I will have your dad give you the biggest hug and kiss for me until I will see you in person. May our Lord bless, and keep you that you may feel His presence always. And let the nurses, know how much I appreciate all that they do and may each and every one thank the Lord for the privilege of taking care of you. The Lord knows just the right ones to send, their speciality is being compassionate, understanding and patient and that they have a very special job and the Lord bless each and everyone and give them the wisdom and knowledge they need. I love you very much and so very glad your my grandson. Love you lots Grandma Foutts
i got it
hey, wow its been a while since ive been on here. but ive been thinking about michael for a while though. its nice to hear he's doing well. sorry i havent commented on one of your blogs for a while. but i jsut not got to realy thinking about how michael was doing!.
Hi Michael,
Teachers had their first meetings today to get everything set up for another year of school. I am excited about getting started again after our short break. I will plan on seeing you on Wednesday, August 22 at 11:45, at your Dad's house. We'll keep our same schedule unless therapy plans conflict in any way.
Call with any questions. See you next week!
Leasa Coulter
Hi Kylee. Nice to hear from you - I've been out of town and didn't check here. Michael is doing good. He started trying out a mouse for his computer and did real well, he's answering history questions :) I'm sure he loves that.
Hi Leasa, we're looking forward to starting up again also, thanks for checking in.
I need to get him set up to use the mouse more easily...
Re-doing my kitchen includes painting, installing beadboard, chair-rail and a room divider. Except for the painting, nothing I have ever done before - including using a brand new circular saw (I love power tools!), a mitre box, handsaw and brand new nailgun. It was asking a lot of myself to do it - by myself.
I think I"ll arrange to have a friend over to guide me - but still let me do it myself.
I was a little overwhelmed.
Monday I brought Michael into the kitchen so he could look at the woodpeckers in the back yard. I pointed out my handiwork (not yet completed)... I got a thumbs up - at least for effort. :)
I have to say that I'm proud of you Christine! You have a lot to do and take care of on your own and you're doing a great job.
hey. i havent been on here in a while again. every once in a while i think about michael and how hes doing. and today i finally remembered to get on this site to check on him. hope all is well :)
Hi Kylee,
Nice to hear from you. How are you doing?
Hey Michael, how ya been babes? I'm still plugging away here at LSHS, attempting to educated the stinker sophomore group (you wouldn't know ANYTHING about that, would you??). It's good to see that you were about to do a shout out "hi" on this site... just wanted to say "hey" back to you. Take care doll. Miss ya and hope all is going well with you.. tell everyone hello for me...
Just went in to check on him - Michael I mean. He's sleeping and smiling. :) Guess he's having a nice dream. Some how that makes it alright, for now. :-)
Hi Michael, I am so sorry you are hurting, I will be praying the Lord take away your pain or give the drs. wisdom & knowledge on why it is so they can help you. Bgut it sounds like your doing pretty good with your therapy, Praise the Lord for that. I sure do miss you, but as your dad said it is hard to put the wheel chair in the van and all the other stuff that goes with it, I know your dad is carrying a heavy burden, but the Lord knows also but we know that all things work together to those who love the Lord. I pray through this the Lord will show us where I need to bring honor and glory to the Lord Jesus Christ, I know there are others Michael that are watching you, besides, your dad, Connie, Addison and your Mom, we all need to totally depend upon the Lord and I know that is hard when you see your son suffering, but then we look at Jesus Christ and see how He suffered for us all. But just know you are loved so very much, most of the members in the Way of Life Class are always asking about you, so many care but now I can tell them specifically how to pray, for your communicating, your pain and all this will bring honor to the Lord Jesus Christ. He is your strength, He is your all, so I am totally depending upon Him because I know without Him I can do nothing and without Him I am nothing but with Jesus Christ I can do all things. So even tho I don't get to see you very much always know my thoughts and prayers are with you and all my love and I am so very proud of you for all you go through in therapy, I know it must seem like a very long day and I know at times it hurts, but you are improving and we know anything worth while sometimes there is a lot more to it than some of us realize, I know I can do more things than some of my friends, so I feel very blessed, but all that could change, we just never know what lies ahead for us, I just pray if and when that time comes I will remember all you have been through and not complain, just accept whatever it may be, but you are my witness and what a testimony you have. The Lord is always with you, He will never leave you or forsake you and I guess at times, you have to go through the pain and whatever else there could be, but just know the Lord is right by your side and He may be using you to show the rest of us we have nothing to complain or anything, and we much always let you know how proud we are, how much you are loved and what a great job you are doing, you have quite a burden to carry yourself and your doing it so well, I know the Lord is so proud of you. In His Word He was saying look at my servant Job, I imagine now He is saying look at my servant Michael. So keep up the good work, and always I am praying, the Lord will bless you in a very special way and that you can even feel His presence, you know He is right there with you, and also how much you are loved, appreciated and missed so very much. I am sorry I have not written to you more, but it is not that I forget you, I just don't remember to check your website, I could not forget you, I love you so very much and I am so very glad your my grandson, the Lord has blessed me richly and I thank Him for you also. I will be praying that the Lord take away your pain give you some relief and also give all the drs, nurses and therapist knowledge on how to help you. So goodnight my sweet grandson, again I love you very much and look forward to seeing you sometime. I will have your dad give you a hug and kiss for me and to squeeze his hand as you do mine, I love it when you do that.So until the next time, I sign off with all my love to my very wonderful and fantastic grandson. Lord be with Michael this night may he have a good night's rest and please Lord take His pain away and I thank you Lord also for all You are doing for Michael, Continue to hold him in your hand put your arms around him and let him know You are always there, thank You so very much we love you Lord and in Jesus precious Name I pray. Love Grandma F.
It's good to see those smiles, and I know my mom had fun too! =]
Hi Laura, nice to hear from you. Your mom is pretty nice in that. :)
Kirk and Christine.....Thank you so much for posting the information about Justin Foster. Kirk, I want to thank you for going to the hospital in Columbia to see Justin yesterday. I know it took effort to go there. I want to thank Michael and Debra (his nurse), too. I talked to Justin's father, Brian (BJ) and he said he missed seeing you. He said he hung around the hospital until about 1:30 hoping to get to see you. I told BJ that you left a note for Melanie (Justin's mom) and him. BJ is now able to go home from the hospital at night and stay at home and get good rest instead of sleeping on the hospital visiting room floor. BJ said he feels Justin is "out of the woods" and this allows him to travel home to Moberly (about 45 minutes from Colubmia) to check on his business, and sleep at home. BJ said that the prayers everyone has lifted up for Justin have worked miracles. I can't thank you and everyone for all the praying they did for our Justin. You and Christine are doing God's work. Michael is, too. I get on this site every now and then and check on Michael. I am glad that he is making progress, too. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You guys are awesome. Glenda Foster ("aunt" of Justin, and co-worker of Christine.)
Glenda, you are welcome. Sorry I missed Brian. The nurse had just given Justin something for pain so he was sleeping, he did open his eyes and look up at them a little bit. Justin looks good! While I was there a couple therapist came to work with him and said they wanted to get him up in a chair. This is awesome!! It's good news and it is good that they are looking at "recovery" already. Very encouraging.
If you have any questions that we can help with feel free. You will all be in our prayers.
Good stuff! I'm thankful Michael is able to get out and that you're stepping out of that comfort zone to take him. I need to step out of mine to see that he can go somewhere, without me. Some have asked how Michael is doing with everything - I posted on this you can read the post here - thepoweroflove.us/.../michael-is-ok.aspx
Michael, I am so sorry you are in pain and now I hear you have an earache,I just wish I could take all your pain away and give it to me, I am not very good on pain, but I rather have it than you, but I hear your going to the dr. tomorrow, so praying that someone up there will be able to help you. Surely there is a dr, that knows about headaches and earaches, I am praying the Lord will give that dr. wisdom & knowledge that will help you, you are so special and you have been through a lot, but you are doing great also. May our Lord put His healing hand upon you and take your pain away according to His will. So just know I love you very much would love to spend more time with you, just holding your hand and not talking because I know your feeling bad, but praying and reading scriptures. So just know you are loved, appreciated and loved also missed very much. I pray your ride up there will be easy no bumps or sudden stops, just a nice easy ride. so my very brave grandson hang in there but then you do not have much choice, I am praying and so are many others, May our Lord just cradle you in His arms and you can feel His presence. I will be checking with your Mom to see how everything comes out, so I love you and miss you so much. Love you always. Grandma F.
Hey Michael so glad to see you on Wed. April 29, your other grandmother (Barbara) & I went to see Michael, they were doing some therapy then it was time for him to eat, but we thought he had to wait in the lobby longer than what he should of, but finally I asked and they sent out a nurse to put liquid in his feeding tube, so Barbara & I went to eat, came back he was still eating, then they gave him some water, Then Molly came and took him to play it was called connect 4 he did pretty good. I believe he was glad to see us, someone from home, it was really hard to leave him but they had put him in bed, so he was able to rest. Anyway I talked to his dad and gave him a report, I slso thought the cradle cap was really noticeable, but Kirk said he would take care of that. Barbara said Christine would be up there on Saturday, sure hope she stays Sunday also, because that would be a long week for Michael if no one would be there on sunday.
But Barbara told me he would go home on Wed. although I know the therapy is good for him, it is almost essential, but also when they are not there very long, it doesn't seem they are as speedy as they were when he was there for a long time, then they were right there with the therapy and just checking to see that everything was okay, but since he is there just for two weeks, it is just like any other hospital they not quite as caring as they could be especially when the family lives so far away, no one to check and see if everything is doing for him as it should and I mean for all day by day patients. Now I know Michael got therapy but it seems he had to wait awhile before anyone would come and see how he is doing, I know I am prejudiced and believe he should be looked after fairly often, but I would also believe that for anyone else that was there just for a week or so. But most of all I know the Lord was there and that is what is most important and Michael had prayers going up more this time than ever before, because a whole new bunch was praying for him. But Michael it was so good to see you, it seems like it has been a long time, but then time goes by so fast, I kinda of loose count of when the last time I saw you. But maybe since it is summer I will be able to see you more often, hopefully. Barbara even asked me how often I see you. I said when the opportunity arises. But I got to hold your hand and you wav good bye to me, but when your grandma Richardson asked if you wanted to go home, that thumb came up right now no hesitation. So I know in a way you probably are home sick, just to be around your family all the time is the best medicine for you at times. But I am praying the next few days will go by fast, so Wed. will be here before you know it. But know you are loved and missed very much. Four more days and you will be on your way home. Lord willing. But I know your mom will be ther today I am not sure about Sunday, but I am not calling her until sunday evening, just to check and see how your doing and what she thinks since she was with you last sunday and then this week and if she is really coming to get you on Wed. that is what I want to know more than anything. I pray the drs. found out information and was able to help you as much as they could. Barbara showed me your one dr. not dr. Wolfe but the other one, he was leaving the cafeteria while we were eating, well my dear one, rest and know again you are loved and missed very much. so may our Lord bless you, give you peace of mind and keep His arms around you always. Love you very much Grandma F.